Women often search for sensual songs or love making songs because they aren’t just looking for music—they’re looking for emotional guidance. The right song becomes a partner in intimacy, shaping trust, breath, pace, and desire. This guide brings together some of the best songs about good sex, the most loved music to have sex to, and deeply emotional love-making songs designed for slow, intimate moments.

Introduction: Why Music Touches You Deeper Than Hands
There are moments when you want to be touched—but not right away. You want slowness, warmth, and emotional presence. You want to feel something shift inside you before hands ever meet skin.
That’s why so many women turn to sensual songs, sex songs, and love-making music. These aren’t just songs to have sex to—they’re emotional triggers. They regulate your breath. They soften your shoulders. They guide your body into openness, desire, and trust.
In real intimacy, rhythm matters more than speed. Tone matters more than volume. And emotional safety matters more than stimulation.
So here is a playlist crafted not from “random sexy songs,” but from real public sensual playlists—Spotify’s top “Sensual Songs & Go-To Sex Playlist,” Oprah’s “Songs to Have Sex To,” and user-curated bedroom R&B mixes. These 16 tracks are the most consistently recommended, listened to, and loved across women-centered sensual playlists. And today, they’re here for you—arranged not by genre, but by emotion.
If you love intimacy that begins with sound, explore Auralism: Let Your Ears Fall in Love or Immersed in the Magic of Deep Voice. They pair beautifully with what follows.
Scene 1: Slow, Deep, Emotional Intimacy
- -soft love-making songs · sensual slow sex music · songs to melt into
There are moments when desire doesn’t feel like fire—it feels like warmth. Like someone placing a hand on your lower back, guiding you slowly into closeness. This kind of sensuality is not about urgency; it’s about permission—permission to soften, to breathe, to feel safe enough to open.
In this emotional space, music becomes the first touch. These tracks are curated specifically for women who feel intimacy in layers—emotional first, physical second. Each song here slows your breathing and settles you deeper into your body. These are the tracks that take you from “I’m thinking” to “I’m feeling.”
1. Earned It — The Weeknd
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
There’s a reason this song is almost synonymous with slow, sensual intimacy. The orchestral strings don’t just support the melody—they raise the emotional stakes, creating a feeling of being wanted intensely, deliberately, almost reverently.
Women often describe this song as the moment where “my mind finally relaxed enough for my body to feel.” It's a love-making song that blends dominance, devotion, and restraint into a pure atmosphere.
2. Love to Love You Baby — Donna Summer
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
One of the most iconic songs to have sex to ever recorded—and for good reason.
Donna Summer’s breathy vocals feel like silk sliding across bare skin. The repetition isn’t monotonous; it creates a trance-like rhythm that mirrors slow, continuous touch.
The song lingers in that delicious space between anticipation and surrender, making it perfect for women who enjoy pleasure that builds gradually rather than exploding quickly. It’s sensuality in its purest vintage form.
3. Can't Feel My Face — The Weeknd
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
This track wraps around you like dim lighting and a slow inhale. It’s emotional, a little dangerous, and irresistibly intimate. It creates a feeling of being deeply seen—even in your messy, imperfect desires. Perfect for sinking into closeness where bodies feel heavy and warm together.
4. Nothing’s Gonna Hurt You Baby — Cigarettes After Sex
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
This is the musical equivalent of being kissed on the forehead. Soft, unhurried, whisper-light—yet deeply affirming. Women describe this song as:
“the moment I finally feel safe enough to let someone touch me.”
It’s slow sensuality through emotional reassurance, making it one of the most grounding tracks in the entire playlist. If you’re drawn to softness like this, explore Vanilla Kinks for more gentle intimacy.
5. Lose Control - Teddy Swims
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
When we talk about yearning, this is the song to match that vibe with. It's all about want, obsession, and addiction, in the most sensual energy. It's about how a person could become a mess without the partner they yearn for and how much it affects them when their presence is not there. If you're drawn to absolute want and affection, this is the song to play in that spicy moment you've been waiting for. Add in Teddy Swim's smooth and husky voice, you're in for a ride.
6. PILLOWTALK - Zayn
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
"It's our paradise and it's our war zone."
Intense intimacy and deep connection. This song would knock you off of your feet instantly when you want that extra passion and detail in your little spicy endeavor. The way Zayn describes the intimate corners of sex while still highlighting the value of connection is addicting. A perfect song to ravish and be ravished to.
Scene 2: Emotional Intensity & Hunger
- -sex songs with passion · emotional slow burn · songs about good sex
This scene isn’t soft—it’s slow intensity. It’s the moment when desire becomes louder, fuller, almost overwhelming in the best way. It's the feeling of peak desire where resisting is almost impossible.
These songs are for women who feel sex in their chest before their body. This is intensity without chaos—heat without rushing. Emotion leads, the body follows.
7. Favorite - Isabel LaRosa
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
The gentle and delicious push of having someone want you and exerting effort to take you is beyond exhilarating. The song itself is not the only one that makes you want it bad, Isabel's vocals also did the trick. Becoming someone's favorite is such a dream and listening to this one brings out that desire to want it too.
8. Wow — Post Malone
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
This track doesn’t touch you—it elevates you. It’s sweeping, cinematic, and emotionally charged.
Perfect for intimacy that feels big, powerful, or transformative. If love makes you feel expanded, this track carries that sensation effortlessly.
9. Skin — Rihanna
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
This is slow seduction embodied. The breathiness, the teasing tension, the emotional weight in her voice—everything in this song moves with intention. It’s one of the most erotic tracks without ever being explicit.
Perfect for women who enjoy anticipation as foreplay.
10. Often — The Weeknd
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Heavy. Hypnotic. Addictive. This song drops you straight into a deeper rhythm—slow, controlled, dominant. It holds the kind of confidence that intensifies everything. For many women, this track unlocks a more carnal, grounded sensuality.
11. Unholy - Sam Smith
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
This list will not be complete with Sam Smith's Unholy. One of the kinkiest songs out there up to date. It's hunger and the extreme desire to get dirty. It's the perfect message that confirms that daddy is getting hot.
Scene 3: Playfulness, Teasing & Flirty Seduction
- -foreplay songs · sexy playful music · sensual teasing energy
Not all intimacy needs emotional depth—sometimes desire is born from play. This scene is light, teasing, fun, and emotionally freeing.
These songs create a world where you can be both soft and mischievous. They warm you up gently and invite your body to move without thinking too much. It's the push and pull of intimacy.
12. Talk — Khalid
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Warm, youthful, and emotionally open.
This song doesn’t push; it invites. It feels like smiling into someone’s chest while they touch your waist lightly. Perfect for the early stages of intimacy, or when you want connection without pressure.
13. Tears - Sabrina Carpenter
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
The perfect "subtle" but not-so-subtle message to send someone that their green-flag traits attract them to you. And that you want something more from them, if you get what that means. Time to cry excited tears with someone who really draws you in.
14. Juno - Sabrina Carpenter
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Simple. You want them so much that your inner breeding kink is seeping through. Ever watched the movie "Juno"? Yes. That.
15. Good Days — SZA
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Light, dreamy, soft around the edges. It clears emotional space, making room for desire to arrive naturally. Perfect for women who need emotional clarity before sensuality.
16. Gimme More - Britney Spears
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
"It's Britney, B*tch"
Sound familiar? It's the anthem for women who want more. And wanting more is never bad, especially if wanting more makes you feel good. Let them hear it, honey. Let them hear how much you want more of them.
17. Please Me - Cardi B, Bruno Mars
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Heavy. Hypnotic. Addictive. This song drops you straight into a deeper rhythm—slow, controlled, dominant. It holds the kind of confidence that intensifies everything. For many women, this track unlocks a more carnal, grounded sensuality.
18. Positions - Ariana Grande
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
What's an attractive trait that draws one to a person, especially when it comes to relationships? It's the flexibility and the adaptability of coexisting that is driven by the desire of being together. This song is all about dedication and wanting to be able to catch up and adjust to the person you like to suit their preferences. Not in the toxic way but more of... a sexy switch of positions.
19. 34 + 35 - Ariana Grande
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Add those two numbers together and you finally got your answer. The want to be...all night is sexciting. Especially when the invitation to get some is felt through this song.
Scene 4: Female Sexual Confidence
- -songs for slow domination · sensual authority · emotional control and female empowerment
This scene is specifically built for the ladies. An anthem for self-confidence and having a sure, healthy, and deep affection towards oneself, especially in the sensual scene
20. Dangerous Woman - Ariana Grande
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
A declaration. A warning. A plea of surrender. It's the admittance of the effect they have on you. And how they make you into someone feral, desireful, and sexy. And you love this feeling.
21. Into You - Ariana Grande
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
Ari loves singing her heart out just to let someone know how she feels. This is empowering honesty and letting your feelings heard is extremely sexy and could be good for you. It's admitting how you're into them that it affects your entire being. And that song proves that it's okay to do that.
22. Moonlight - Kali Uchis
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
You feel this song float you into a damn hazy, romantic night, where everything slows down and the world fades until it’s just vibes, soft lights, and that sweet sense of being wanted.
It gives you that dreamy, carefree damn rush of freedom and closeness, like you’re glowing under moonlight and drifting high on love, safety, and quiet obsession.
23. God is a Woman - Ariana Grande
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
You feel that song wrap you in a damn divine glow, slow and smooth, making you feel powerful, sensual, and calm as hell like you’re channeling something bigger than confidence. That the way you make them feel is so divine that proves that God is indeed a woman... Especially when she gets to being heaven to you.
It moves through you with that hypnotic, floating rhythm, building a quiet damn authority where you feel worshipped without asking and grounded in your own allure.
24. Obsessed - Mariah Carey
-🎧 Spotify & Apple Music
You feel this song spark that damn unbothered confidence, yeah, like you’re cool as hell while someone else is losing their mind watching you live rent-free in their thoughts.
It wraps you in that sassy, powerful rush where you feel untouchable and desired as fuck, knowing you don’t have to try at all for people to get stupidly obsessed with you.
Why These Songs Work: The Psychology of Sensual Sound
Women’s desire rarely responds to speed—it responds to rhythm, tone, emotional resonance, and breath. Sensual songs work not because they force intensity, but because they create the conditions in which desire can naturally rise. They offer a sense of emotional safety, allowing the body to soften instead of brace. They build anticipation gently, giving the mind enough time to catch up with what the body is starting to feel. Their steady tempo provides a rhythm your breath can follow, creating a physical grounding that quiets overthinking. And above all, they create soundscapes spacious enough for your emotions to unfold inside—places where you can feel held, not hurried.
This is why love-making songs are so powerful: they choreograph your emotional and physical experience long before anything physical happens. A well-chosen sensual track slows your heartbeat, deepens your breath, and invites your body to respond without pressure or expectation. It prepares you—not by pushing, but by opening.
For women who respond intensely to sound, explore Audio Intimacy next, where we dive deeper into why a voice can turn you on more than touch.
Audio Recommendations
These audio experiences pair beautifully with this playlist, deepening the same emotional and sensual textures you’ve just explored. Each one uses voice, breath, and atmosphere to guide you gently into a more intimate state of mind—letting sound become a partner in desire rather than a backdrop to it.
🎧 Can You Keep the Music Down? - ManicWildcard
🎧 Dick Sucking Music - drRapture
Sound is the softest way to explore desire—gentle enough to draw you in, powerful enough to stay with you. Let these audios meet you where your body and imagination already want to go.
About MagicWave
At MagicWave, we believe intimacy begins long before touch.
It begins with self-awareness, emotional safety, and a space where your desires can breathe—and sound is one of the gentlest ways to open that space.
MagicWave is a sanctuary for women exploring desire, intimacy, self-understanding, and emotional safety through sound, psychology, and storytelling. Everything we create is built on consent-first intimacy and deep emotional awareness. Through sound, we turn self-care into self-connection.
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